THE HERO’S QUEST
The Initiation of your Mystic, Lover, Warrior & Sovereign
A PERSONAL JOURNEY WITH PHOENIX AMARA
Most of us did not grow up with any training in sacred sexuality, intimacy, or how to wield the power of love with integrity.
No one handed us the map for how to open our hearts, claim our desires, and move with both strength and tenderness.
That’s why this mentorship exists.
The work I do with men is not casual. It is profound. It is a journey of initiation where you will encounter every part of yourself through the mirror of the Full Spectrum Feminine — the fierce, the tender, the erotic, the sovereign. You will be cracked open, stripped of illusions, and invited to step into the man you were always meant to be.
If you’ve found your way here, it’s because you are ready. No one arrives at this threshold by accident. This path calls only those who are prepared to break through, to feel deeply, to awaken their primordial Lover, Warrior, Alchemist, & Sovereign.
This is not just about healing your sexuality. It’s about rewriting your relationship with love, power, and desire — for yourself, and for the world.
If your heart is pounding and something inside you says yes… keep going.
xoxo, Phoenix Amara
You’re ready for this experience & mentorship because you desire to:
• Transform your relationships with women & experience the depths of authentic divine feminine devotion
• Experience a fulfilling relationship with both Passion AND Love (versus having to choose between love + sex). You know you are worthy of having it all!
• Embody your Assertive Divine Masculine energy — in life, your career, the bedroom and relationships.
• Practice the art of Tantra, Sacred Sexuality and Sexual Energy Mastery in your life
• Be able to FEEL & Express your emotions, have your needs met, and cultivate a powerful connection with a lover, partner or beloved.
• Uncover your blockages and challenges around relationships with women & practice relationship skills so you can experience the kind of love you know is possible
• Learn valuable skills in intimacy, sexuality, and emotional connection so you can build a relationship with a Divine Feminine woman that connects you heart, mind, & soul.
• Heal the relationship with your Divine Masculine essence & Express your Primal Energy, Your Assertive Penetrating Power, and Your Essence.
• Explore modalities around somatic therapy, conscious kink, and sacred sexuality to release triggers, anxiety, and traumas around women, your heart, your sexuality & your pleasure.
IN THE HERO’S QUEST YOU’LL:
THEMES WE ALSO EXPLORE:
ARCHETYPAL EXPLORATION
Explore the many facets of your being, expression and power through exploring the power of the Warrior, the sensuality of the Lover, the wisdom of the Magician, and the imbued power of the Sovereign (Queen or King).
AUTHENTIC INTIMACY:
Intimacy & the Art of Romance - with yourself & your beloved. Overcome porn addiction and become a Masterful lover in building sensual tension and energy for your partner, making them desire your every touch. Learn about the elements of female arousal and truly the art of romancing the feminine heart.
RELATIONSHIP TOOLS:
Develop a deeper, lasting and more intimate bond with your partner (or future partner), and experience ecstatic states of soul lovemaking. Discover the power of transformational communication for navigating conflict, deepening your relationship and aligning your life visions. Explore non-traditional relationship styles.
UNLEASHING YOUR INNATE POWER: .
Overcome any hidden feelings of shame & guilt around your Primal side, and explore the work of embracing the shadow aspects of the masculine & feminine.
INNER ALCHEMY:
Sex magic - harnessing the power of your union for manifesting personal desires and intentions. Feel empowered in your confidence in intimate and romantic relationships and fully accept your Primal Sexual Energy. Explore the hidden secrets of energy magic and harnessing your life force energy.
SPIRITUAL PRACTICES:
Develop deep practices of communing with the Spirit World, including working with Sympathetic Magic, pagan nature rituals, and working with energy healing.
Client Testimonial
“We are conditioned to fight most of what we don’t intentionally want in our lives, and this creates a non-surrender environment preventing us from growing as we accept and surrender to our process enlightening us further then before.
My hero’s journey looks like this, when I began the temple journey I was confident but also nervous about the unfolding and whether or not we would bond to create the most amazing journey. I needed to embrace my understanding even though I wasn’t sure what that looked like. I faced myself in a most unimaginable way feeling conflict with your idea and the process of what was to come. It was through this work that I was able to finally see myself with clear lenses to see myself with no excuses, and to accept that I am the creator of me, the extension of myself toward others that to place no blame for unwanted life events has been my biggest accomplishment and transformation to date.
Grateful for the young powerful woman who has taught me more then I would have believed possible. Any man can learn valuable life lessons from a woman when his ego is hushed, and he uses two ears and his heart to listen.
So proud of you and your ability to engage in this work – the world thanks you and many others like you. With so much love surging through me, its hard to express with words what you mean to me everything I said to you from the beginning was real not exaggerated not fake but as real as I can be, thank you Phoenix for facilitating me on my journey. I am proud to tell you that I love you.”
– N.V, Summer 2019
About your Divine Feminine Guide
Phoenix Amara is an internationally recognized Prayerformance Ceremonialist, Writer, and Divine Feminine guide. Having mentored in esoteric studies and metaphysics since childhood, she pursued degrees in Visual Arts and Environmental Design, explored plant medicines, personal development modalities, and finally the erotic arts. For over a decade, she’s facilitated hundreds of ceremonies & journeys for clients, as well as mentoring thousands through her online and in-person trainings, retreats and events.
You can find her interviewing experts on the HOLY EROS PODCAST: exploring the intersection of Soul, Sex & Art. Her best-selling memoir, “Ascension of Gaia: The Resurrection of the Sacred Sexual Feminine”, documents her own healing path of connecting to her sexuality and earth-based wisdom. With training in somatic therapy, neo-tantra, sacred sexuality and performance art, you can discover the wild and wonderful experiences and coaching she offers through her website: www.phoenixamara.com
As the former founder of Awakened Woman Convergence (2016, 2017) she’s organized international retreats and conferences in destinations such as Bali & Arizona, performed and spoken on dozens on stages across North America such as DreamTalks, SoulPlay, Lucidity Festival, and Electric Love Festival and led retreats in sacred sites like the Pyramids in Egypt and Chichen Itza Pyramids. Additional qualifications include a year long Somatic Sexologist Training, Somatic Embodiment Training Level 1, DeArmouring Weekend Training with Nathan Marcuzzi, Authentic Relating Level 1, Non-Violent Communication Training, Personal Power with Lori-Ann Demers, Red Lotus Tantra Certification with Olivia Jade, Usui Reiki Levels 1, 2 & 3, Diploma of Visual Arts, Bachelors of Environmental Design, and feminine leaderships trainings with Nisha Moodley, Emily Utter, Love Leadership with Kamala Devi, Margie Pargie and others. Connect with her on IG.
HOW WE EXPLORE TOGETHER
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Ceremonies, Rituals & Events
We come together to weave energy & soul through online experiential rituals that may involve erotic archetypal embodiment, plant medicine ceremonies, breathwork, erotic art making and other surprising experiences.
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Quests
Every Hero must be tasked with Quests which will test his courage and help him pass the thresholds of initiation. Your Quests will include going forth into your inner landscape of emotion, spirit and memory through ‘journey work’ self-reflection & writing assignments, and other tests which will have you transform aspects of your inner life to enable change on the outside.
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Connection Calls
Staying connected in between our in-person journeys is an important aspect of reflection + integration. I’ll be here to support your integration and growth through pre & post journey calls, in-person connections and through our Private Telegram or Signal thread.
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Resources
Each month you’ll receive special resources to help you in your Quest - from Sacred Sexuality Resources Library in my private Hero’s online portal to shamanic gifts & books that will deepen your magic & be gifted in your Quest of Mastery.
SESSION 1: THE INNER CHILD
The Inner Child: Connecting to Ancestral Patterns of Relationship in your Family & Understanding your Attachment Styles, Your Relational Process, Your Wounds & Fears. In the very first session (whether online or in-person), we’ll explore:
• Daoist Breathwork & Meditation: To relax your nervous system and get you in touch with your energy
• Consent games & practices to get you in touch with your Yes and No, and how to attune to another’s yes or no.
• Breathwork journey around parents: to heal, clear and begin releasing suppressed emotions towards mother/feminine and father/masculine.
SESSION 2
THE INNER LOVER
The Inner Lover: Exploring the realms of Sensuality, Romance and the Senses. Some of the fundamentals you may explore include:
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Visualization & Using Breath to bring orgasm up and back up the Sushumna channel.
Understanding the Dynamics and full spectrum of the Divine Feminine: From Holy Whore to Pure Innocence, you’ll understand the frequency of the feminine and its qualities within yourself and your partner. You’ll heal aspects of your relationships to the women in your life through journaling, coaching and somatic experiences.
• The power of the heart: bringing sexual energy into the heart for greater openness, intimacy and connection with your partner and yourself.
• Honouring Desire: Releasing shame and guilt around your desires through journaling exercises and erotic rituals
Examples of rituals, ceremonies and practices include; Daoist Micro-cosmic Orbit Breath Practice, The 3-Min Game from the Wheel of Consent, Elemental Touch, and 5-Senses Ceremony.
SESSION 3: THE INNER WARRIOR
The Inner Warrior: Express what you’re a stand & illicit your fire, power & courage. From practices like rage rituals to exploring the catharisis of Kink and Tantric BDSM—stand in your Dark Divine Masculine power.
The Inner Warrior: Expressing your Full Masculine essence in experiences that will push you to your edges.
Consent & Guided support around BDSM, Conscious Kink + Embodying Power Dynamics in a safe way
Polarity exploration in relational dynamics.
Learning practices to connect with your masculine edge, overcome the Mr. Nice Guy syndrome, and access your Dark Eros energy.
Optional — Utilizing psychedelics and plant medicines for deeper insight & journey work
**Includes Handouts & Preparatory Work to do at home
EXAMPLES OF INNER WARRIOR SESSIONS>>
SESSION 4: Inner Mystic
Anchor into your Heart through a Ceremony that will support you in transmuting past heartbreak, grief and pain into medicine.
• Relating practices that connect you to your heart & expressing your genuine desires in relationship
• Optional: Plant Medicine Ceremony — options include: Psilocybin, MDMA micro-dose, or 5-MEO DMT journeys.
SESSION 5: Inner King
Explore themes, rituals and practices related to Landing your Legacy and the journey of your next steps in your path beyond The Hero’s Quest:
• Connect with your Life Map & Claim your Life’s Goals and Desires.
• The King’s Experience: Open to receiving like a King in an experiential ritual that practices what you are calling in (whether it’s family, love, or personal growth).
SESSION 6: Inner Godself
Deepen your relationship with God, the Universe as well as amplifying your devotion to the Goddess & Divine Feminine:
Set your POWERFUL INTENTIONS for life beyond The Hero’s Quest, and create a new story that reflects this new Rebirth of your power, purpose and pleasure.
Put your skills into practice through creating your own experience of how you would Worship the Goddess.
MYTHIC SELF
As part of your initiation & journey, we co-create an experience to celebrate & honour the work you’ve done — a beautiful way of culminating our time together. Here’s an example below of a group experience created for a Hero’s Quest Participant who got to learn how to create ritual & be witnessed and celebrated by others.
MYTHIC SELF PHOTOSHOOT & RITUAL
In completing his journey with me, Doug alchemized the heartache and grief from his former marriage, healed self-esteem challenges, and began a deep reclamation of inner self-love, worthiness and sexiness in his journey with me. For his final Mythic Self Ceremony, he wanted to tell the story of his redemption in a beautiful ritual nude photoshoot journey. I supported him by gathering together some beautiful humans and securing an incredible photographer and creative directing the shoot. The results speak for themselves. From our time together, Doug emerged into his powerful mythic self and met a beautiful woman whom he deeply loves and cares for in relationship.
Are you ready to become the King, Lover, Alchemist & Warrior
you know you’re ready to be….
LOVE NOTES
“When I first came to this wonderful journey, I was tense with grief from the loss of a relationship. This resulted in experiences that I blindly stumbled into leaving me with guilt and shame about who I was in this world. It was something that has weighed heavy on me over the years and has proven destructive in relationships.
It was this knowing that a deepening in the relationship with myself and the necessity for some deep healing to occur that drove to me to work with Amara. Really, I did not know what to expect. On a superficial level there was the desire for gratification. There was also a deep yearning for a safe space. A safe space for me to cry, to come back to myself. A real need for a container within which I could crack open and let be whatever it was that needed to come out. I see that in my previous relationships, I had pushed myself into sexual experiences thinking that that was the way to find this container, to forcibly try to crack myself open.
It was good for me to see that I was open to throwing myself into this experience. For this, I will be eternally grateful for Amara and this program because she gave me the parameters, I needed in order to throw myself into this experience in a safe way enabling the self-exploration and healing that my heart truly desired.”
– S.H, Fall 2019 3 Month Mentorship Graduate
EMBODY YOUR LOVER | WARRIOR | ALCHEMIST | KING
Because of the intimate nature of the work, developing a commitment to exploring the principles in a container like this is tantamount.
As with anything worth doing and mastering, it takes devoted commitment and consistent practice to see positive results. As a professional practitioner, I devote my precious time to the deep exploration of this work with you devoted to going all in. Our voyage will be intimate, beautiful, playful, and will require a level of vulnerability and trust in myself and the process.
Read below for how to book your consult call & what’s included
What’s included:
The Hero’s Quest is flexible to your location and can weave online sessions, along with optional in-person experiences which includes ceremonies, adventures and explorations of tantra, kink, & group experiences. This is a deep dive which takes place over the duration of six-months. This is a sacred container where you can explore the depths of your relating (and your shadows), heal old wounds, and face your desire and darkness in the container of a six-month immersion of Eros:
Your investment includes my time + expertise including:
• 2x SESSIONS: These 90min-2hr sessions are engaging counselling-style sessions that weave somatic therapy, conscious kink, tantra, breathwork, embodiment practices, and reflection work. One is used as an integration call around the 3 month mark, the second is used as your last integration call.
• PLUS 7X IN-PERSON ARCHETYPAL CEREMONIES: The in-person initiations are styled in the unique themes you want to explore…like conscious BDSM exploration, plant medicine somatic journeys, group experiences, or creative photoshoot journeys.
Each Ceremony is 2.5-4 hours each and can be combined into a weekend experience, especially if you’re travelling from out of town.
AND RESOURCES: Such as PDF Guides around Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, Kink & BDSM which you’ll explore in your mentorship, along with special tools, items needed for ritual experiences, books, Airbnb Rentals, and addititional guests woven into your experience (photographers, videographers, etc).
Unlimited Whatsapp Communication in-between sessions: I’ll prompt you with deeper questions, convos, and audios to continue deepening your inner process and reflections, also welcoming your insights and shares.
What’s additional on top of mentorship is: Travel to destinations outside of Vancouver, B.C. including flights to international destinations, hotel accommodations, and travel expenses which I’ll ask you to cover as part of your providership.
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Pay in Full: $15k CAD (save $4,400)
or Installment Plan: 7x monthly payments of $2500k CAD
YOUR TRIBUTE & CONTRIBUTION
THIS IS A RARE & UNIQUE OPPORTUNITY TO JOURNEY WITH ME OVER THE DURATION OF HALF-A-YEAR
And as such, it also asks for my devotion, presence and energy — to bring my fullest attention to your journey in such a devotional way.
YOUR TRIBUTE IS AN INVESTMENT INTO YOUR GROWTH AS A MAN…WHICH REQUIRES MY TIME & ATTENTION OF MY TEAM.Ready for it?
Each Quest is derived through your own needs & soul desires.
Before each online and in-person journey, we explore in a call ideas and themes of your inner world and how that will be expressed in your next Quest of what you’d like to experience or need.
I’ll share ideas and get your feedback, ensuring you feel comfortable and excited by what we’ll explore. This is but an example of what your mentorship may look like, as each and every experience is uniquely tailored to your current level of experience, knowledge, needs, and desired outcomes.
CLIENT EXPERIENCE:
“When I first started the mentorship I was not very trusting. I feel like I always held back when sharing ie not telling the whole story and not really being honest with myself. I felt I was very timid about my sexuality, very unsure of myself, and not really knowing who I was.
I believed I was coming to learn how to be a more sexual person, more confident, more in control, and to be an overall better lover.
I learnt that I am enough and that sex is much more than an orgasm, and that there is way more connection in sex – way more pleasure in taking your time and that slow and soft is more. I feel like I’m a work in progress and I’m always moving forward. I didn’t realize how closed off I was and how much more open I am now. I was very defensive and not open to listening.
I didn’t handle the blocks very well, and I really just shut down and got defensive, once I was able to listen it all started to make sense – everything just started to flow, now I find I’m much more open to my instructors direction.
We had many amazing journeys, they were very powerful. I remember one with my feminine and my masculine my four year old parents in the garden, Amazing. At the last session I could not believe how much pleasure I could feel.
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I feel I’m so much more open I’m calmer I feel so much connected to myself it’s like I understand myself more than I ever had before. I’m much more confident in myself, I feel I communicate with others better, sexually I feel like I’m a little smoother more comfortable and I know more about sex.
I feel now like I’m dancing in my own sexuality. I feel sexy not ugly, I feel lust and not shame, and I feel like I want more more more.
When I joined the mentorship I thought I was in tune with myself I thought I was grounded I thought I knew about sex. I thought I knew pleasure – BOY was I wrong. There was highs and lows – lots of stories it’s like I went to the bottom and you brought me back up you made me look at myself and it wasn’t easy for either of us but what a reward and it’s working every single day, I loved this mentorship.
When I started I felt shame and now I feel proud I’m stronger happier and I really feel free I’m dancing inside all the time.
Thanks so much Amara you are a amazing person and I feel so grateful our paths crossed.”
– H.M, Summer 2019
“Before meeting with Phoenix I had previously dipped my toes into tantra, somatic and bodywork with a newly certified practitioner, and my experience was enlightening and life-changing.
I wanted to explore this fascinating aspect of sexuality to new depths and through investigating what was available online I came across the Temple Arts – it sounded perfect for me!
I believed that me finding this was meant to be. I envisioned a more intuitive experience I wanted to go deeper I had a craving to explore the hidden powerful sexuality inside me, a significant amount of fear was attached to my new understanding and path forward almost making me feel hesitant. But my potential goddess practitioner was just that a beautiful goddess woman that I found incredibly sexy, attractive and hot!
A phone call time was arranged and we connected you were nice to talk too, I felt comfortable I felt we had a good chat you were very professional. After our call we preceded to the next step, when I received the mentorship package I was very impressed with the outline. I felt like an amazing adventure was just before me, and I had been guided to you I love to learn and you Phoenix Amara were just the right person to teach me.
Personal experience continued…
“With very little father figure influence, I have noticed patterns in my life that I deny, like me a man with the nice boy ideology, mom always said “Be a good boy(man) and just be yourself and the girls will love you”. I see how this has made me a man that wants to please everyone, wants people to like him, doesn’t want to rock the boat and avoid all controversy and will lie manipulate and appear untrusting to most people he meets all while believing he is the most trusted person in the room. This entire experience with you has shown me that I am a man living with the lack of men in my life, in seeing that, my next step is to begin the work with men, I begin a 3 week journey with the mankind project.
I had become very spiritual prior to meeting Phoenix Amara and was ready to embrace more spiritual embodiment through this Temple Arts mentorship program.
What was the most enlightening experience? Many things come to mind I loved learning that you are a mother, I loved the talk time we shared you have such a fire in your person this excites me, I enjoyed learning and participating in the intention and prayer ceremonies, it was fun and freeing to write down intentions and unwanted feelings that didn’t serve me and then burn the paper, this was very powerful and I would not have thought so before.
However, it seems that the most enlightening awareness has come to me weeks later I am happy I asked because I received the answers to my questions in the most unusual way it was right there, I almost didn’t see it! It was my heart that picked it up thank you! thank you heart.
Through the mentorship I felt I grew in my perception of what it takes for a women to feel safe to feel protected, to feel trust and ultimate love and how important these factors are to enable us as spiritual beings to engage in intimate practices, and how easy it is to take for granted. I saw how I have displayed myself in my life living shallow barely scratching the surface of the real me. Keeping myself covered in armour afraid to expose my emotions for fear of judgment so instead pretending to be the person that I think others want me to be, instead of just accepting the real me flaws and all, I think some of me was aware of and some not, since completing the temple and asking the questions: why is my perception so skewed? And what can I learn from this? Why do I see things so differently then others? And what is this gift? How can I be real with people and not offend people but empower them and myself in the process?
I am proud that I finished the mentorship as I took it very seriously. I wanted to learn as much as possible, and felt I may have come on to strong in the beginning but I was only trying to demonstrate my previous learnings and my ability to push forward expressing my feelings and desirers making me feel uncomfortable but feeling so necessary to experience. I learned how surrendering can be empowering that I had to surrender to get the most out of this program.”
Unleash yourself….
and prepare for a life-changing experience that will crack you open…