Absolutely! Many guests choose to simply watch and soak in the experience without participating, and some even leave after the performances. What makes our events so unique is that they’re designed for everyone—whether you’re a seasoned explorer or completely new to this world.

We emphasize that all rituals and immersive activities are purely invitations. You’re welcome to simply sit back and witness an unforgettable spectacle—one of the most captivating, evocative, and sensual performances you’ll ever see. Or, if curiosity calls, you can step deeper into the experience and become part of the unfolding story.

For those who are new or feeling a little uncertain, we offer dedicated spaces to unwind, chat, and connect with fellow attendees after the show. And for the more adventurous? There are secluded realms to explore, including our infamous Massage Temple, the mysterious Divine Dungeon, and the enchanting Lover’s Den.

No pressure, no expectations—just an invitation to explore at your own pace.

This ritual theatre is held as a sober container. We ask all participants to attend without drugs or intoxicants, in service of presence, safety, and embodied awareness. Thank you for honouring the integrity of the space. The afterparty is under your discretion;—but be aware that substances can shift consent—and altar the group energy field. Certain psychedelics such as mushrooms can (in microdose amounts) be supportive of transformation during the afterparty, but substances like cocaine & ketamine are strictly prohibited from the event entirely…as we want everyone to be dialled in, not disassociation. #embodiment

You can find our full consent + ethics guidelines here>>

We are very enthusiastic about keeping our spaces CONSENT focused, and as such, everyone attending will be brought through a fun & educational overview of consent and our group agreement fields.

We consider this to be an Erotic Theatre Ritual Experience, where participants are encouraged to explore their erotic expression and sensuality. We’re here to play with sensuality and expression - evoke seduction, flirty playfulness, and creating an environment for your erotic siren, graceful goddess, or commanding heathen to come online.

This is an erotic adventure of exploration with the primary intention being to create a space of sensual expression and liberation with focus on sensuality, romanticism, and playful + sexy fun (and not so focused on sex). We believe that healthy sexuality emerges when the right conditions are created + sex-focused spaces can actually contribute to expectation and pressure.

We recommend those new to these spaces to anticipate being in an environment not unlike Burning Man, where you’re invited to creatively express yourself…through your clothing and adornments, your persona, and your sensual energy.

While our focus is mainly on exploring Eros through performance, light kink and an atmosphere of consent, there will be designated spaces for general talking/connection, cuddling, kink/BDSM play, and a designated room for intimate interactions (with play partners only).

We are an event that caters to the new-to-sex-positive-spaces people as well as the seasoned explorers - which is why we have the UPPER WORLD (our designated level for dance/general connection & sleep), and our LOWER WORLD (with a designated cuddle + kissing only room, kink/BDSM space, and an all the way space for partners only (no voyeurs).

Not at all. This experience is open to people of all relationship styles, orientations, and expressions. We welcome a beautifully diverse group, striving for a balanced mix of gender expression and dynamics. Our attendees represent a beautiful diversity of expression - from hetero, queer, fluid and more.

You'll find a range of attendees—from monogamous couples looking to deepen their intimacy, to those in open relationships, to singles exploring their desires. Some come alone, some with partners, and some simply to witness and soak in the atmosphere.

To ensure a safe, conscious, and aligned container, all participants are vetted through our application process and must review our consent and ethics guidelines before attending.

Most of our guests are friends, friends of friends, or trusted community recommendations, creating a space where you can relax, connect, and explore without pressure or expectation.

Please apply via the form above along with your application deposit. If confirmed, you’ll receive an email confirmation along with a reminder to pay for remainder of your ticket (your deposit will be applied to your ticket). If your application is declined (due to being incomplete/not a right fit aka not emotionally, physically, mentally ready for this experience as determined by our organizers) your deposit will be returned to you minus e-transfer fees $3). There are very limited tickets - to a) keep this an intimate and highly curated experience, and b) because of venue - so we have around 75 Tickets in total and are first-come first serve with either full payment or deposit. Tickets are non-refundable, however if we can find a vetted and aligned participant to take your spot, you can be refunded through a personal transfer.

A preparation outline will be sent to confirmed participants including what to bring and wear.

Our venue is a spacious private residence located in Kerrisdale, Vancouver.

Our gracious hosts are sex-positive creatives who adore supporting the exploration of sexuality, connection, and liberation of eros. There is ample space for dancing, connecting, playing, and enjoying their beautiful home. Address released to registered attendees.

Of course! We’re inclusive of orientations and those partnered/unpartnered/open relating folk and monogamous peeps. We do strive for a gender/orientation balance - so we’re not hetero-dude heavy…so apply early to ensure you can be welcomed, as our applicants list is already larger than tickets available.

This experience is about so much more than just physical attraction—it’s about energy, connection, and the deeper pull of desire that goes beyond the surface. Our community is rooted in Holistic Wellness and Sacred Sexuality, which means the people drawn to this space are those who value authenticity, conscious relating, and heart-centered experiences. They also happen to be pretty darn hot (or so we think)…

However, that is not the point.

Rather than focusing on who might be there, we invite you to focus on your own desires—what you want to feel, explore, and embody. When you show up with an open heart and a sense of curiosity, the right connections will naturally unfold. Some of the most unexpected, beautiful experiences happen when we release rigid expectations and trust in the magic of the moment.

Come with presence, not pressure. This isn’t about seeking someone to fit an ideal—it’s about immersing yourself in an experience that awakens something within you. And when you do that, you may just find attraction sparking in ways you never expected.

Regarding Refunds: It takes an extraordinary amount of effort and time to pull together these very sacred & beautiful experiences - so managing people's plans & changes of plans is not a desire of ours. Not to mention adds another level of complexity.

So we have a no refunds policy; meaning if you change your mind or something comes up in life and you decide not to come, we do not offer a refund. We will of course, be happy to transfer your ticket to someone else (though we ask that you have them still apply and mention in the application that ticket will be transferred. If they are mentally/emotionally fit for Feral, we're happy to transfer ticket - we just ask that you two do the financial exchange between you).

In some cases, we can also help find another person to take your ticket - though that is an exception and not guaranteed. Thank you for understanding. 

There are very limited tickets - to a) keep this an intimate and highly curated experience, and b) because of venue. We have around 75 tickets in total that are on a first-come first served basis.

Come Draped in Your Own Primal Expression

Step into your most seductive, untamed, and alluring expression of your Feral Self embodied. This is your invitation to play, revel, and indulge in the art of allure and raw primal energy—whether with furs, bones, silks, or lingerie.

Perhaps you’ll arrive as one of the Whores of the Bible, draped in opulence and mystery. Or as a bewitching furred wild animal. Maybe you’ll embrace your feral nature as a seductive werewolf — hungry with desire and wild with instinct. Or perhaps your version of the Feral is wrapped in silk and whispers, a creature of forbidden longing and undeniable allure.

Whatever calls to you, let your adornments reflect your most untamed, delicious, and provocative self. Our creative community is always eager to help weave your vision into reality. Once registered, you’ll receive exclusive access to our Pinterest inspiration board, filled with decadent visuals to ignite your imagination and awaken your inner enchantress.

A step into your most bold, playful, and unapologetic embodiment of desire. Are you ready to taste your own power?

If you have experienced a situation with someone at one of our events where your boundaries have been crossed or consent was not honoured, we heartily encourage you to email us at iamphoenixamara@gmail.com (anonymously or with your contact) along with details of the situation and with who. It’s so important that we keep our community safe and also listen.

IF YOU FEEL YOU’VE EXPERIENCED A CONSENT VIOLATION WITH A MEMBER OF OUR TEAM OR CAST

we encourage you to we encourage you to contact our external non-partisan ethics meditator Mischa Byuck : mischa@evolve.men. We will cover all costs for external meditation.